George Chauncey’s Gay New York: Gender, Urban Culture, and the Making of the Gay Male World, 1890-1940

This book is the Best. Book. EVER. Seriously. Image

Why, you might ask, is Gay New York so darn fabulous?

Let me count the ways. First of all, George Chauncey is a rocking awesome historian. First off, he’s the chair of the history department at Yale. Gay New York was groundbreaking. The footnotes are stuffed with literally every relevant source in the world. In a word: Superb scholarship–and you don’t have to take my word for it.

But it’s more than that. It’s a book that nearly every historian I know dearly loves, but it’s also a book that wider audiences will enjoy. Chauncey not only researches brilliantly, he writes beautifully. It’s a fascinating read that opens up a window on a history that we can all appreciate. The cast of characters are real, brave, scared, flawed, triumphant–but always deeply human.

If you’re curious about LGBT history, this is a fantastic book.

Skip over to Amazon and buy it, at once!

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Woodstock 1969: I Get by With a Little Help From my Friends

Woodstock, 1969. A moment that split the world wide open. Jimi Hendrix re-envisioned the Star Spangled Banner in an edgy, inclusive way for a new generation. It was a festival for the history books. Joe Cocker was a part of that, covering this awesome Beatles song. Every time I hear it I get warm fuzzies–thinking about love, friends, possibility.

Thinking about this song tonight, after an amazing conversation with an old and dear friend. It’s really true–we all “get by with a little help from our friends.” Gay friends, straight friends, tall friends, short friends, funny friends, weird friends–they matter. We need them.

So tell them. Share love. Give love. Be love.

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Because you’re awesome.

Wednesday lunchtime means we’re halfway there! A fabulous weekend awaits. In the meantime:

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The Bible Does NOT Say Homosexuality is a “Sin.” Seriously.

CLOBBERING “BIBLICAL” GAY BASHING

Here’s the thing about “Biblical” gay bashing: It isn’t actually Biblical at all.

The article I’ve linked here contains brilliant exegesis by the Rev. Mark Sandlin. It’s short and sweet and to the point, beautifully written and brilliantly argued. Spoiler Alert: the Bible does NOT say that homosexuality is a sin. As Grumpy Cat would say: NO! Just, NO! It. Doesn’t.

NO

For the record, I’m totally against Biblical literalism, which basically means that some people believe the Christian Bible is inerrant, kind of like a transcript from God to humanity: “Are you getting that down, Paul? No, add a comma to paragraph three.” It simply doesn’t make sense.

I have an anthropology degree and I can assure you that the fossil record is real. The world was not created in seven twenty-four hour periods. Noah’s ark is a great story, and it was fun to watch the giraffes march around the feltboard in Sunday school when I was six-and-a-half (the half being VERY important to me at the time…not so much now that I’m, er, not six-and-a-half anymore). So, to be clear: I am not a Biblical literalist. Far from it. But even if you ARE a Biblical literalist, the fact is that the Bible in no way says that homosexuality is somehow “sinful.” In fact, the contrary is true: what’s sinful is judging and stigmatizing and trying to change people from the way God made us. Sandlin, a minister, with, like, degrees and an unreasonable knowledge of Greek and Latin and stuff, argues this beautifully.

Here’s an excerpt:

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by Mark Sandlin
This is a bit long for a blog post, but some may find it to be a helpful resource. I wrote the piece for another project and it just wasn’t a good fit. Honestly, if you are well read on the issue of the Bible and its take on homosexuality (or lack thereof), there is little new in here. For you, I hope this can be a quick reference. If you are not well read on such things, this may be a bit of a bumpy ride, but bumpy rides can be a lot of fun. Either way, I hope I was able to take what is sometimes thick reading, albeit important reading, and make it at least bearable and mostly straight forward.

Christianity and “Biblical” Hatefulness

We Christians are good at a lot of things. Helping others. Dressing up on Sunday.  Quoting scripture. Pot luck meals. Taking care of church members. Weddings. Funerals. Worship. But perhaps the thing at which we are the most persistently exceptional is misinterpreting the Bible then running amuck in the world because of it. Honestly, mad skills. And history backs me up on this one.We have used the Bible to support, promote and act upon some pretty un-Christian things: slavery, holocaust, segregation, subjugation of women, apartheid, the Spanish Inquisition (which, no one ever expects), domestic violence, all sorts of exploitation and the list could go on and on. Oddly, if you ask theologians to pick one biblical theme to rule them all, most of them would say “love”… well, love and grace. Okay, love, grace and forgiveness. Fine. They probably would not specifically agree on a single term, but they would most likely name something that is, in every way, the opposite of the oppression, belittlement, hatred and marginalization represented by the numerous atrocities committed by the Christian Church.More times than not, these atrocities are the result of trying to play God, pretending as if one group of people has complete knowledge of God’s will and is more blessed or chosen by God. Not surprisingly, the people who see the world this way are always exactly the people who also happen to belong in the group they believe to be the uber-blessed. Lucky them. Time and time again, Jesus made it clear that we should not put ourselves in the place of playing God and that, unlike far too many humans, God welcomes and loves us all equally. Period.But we keep doing it. We keep doing it even though each time after we argue, name-call, suppress others and fight for centuries, falsely playing the role of heavenly judge and jury, we slowly realize that we got it wrong. We realize that, in fact, Paul was not promoting slavery. We learn to contextualize his statements and letters. We become more skilled at interpreting the original Greek and, over time, we decide to stop quoting the Bible to support slavery (or the subjugation of women, or racism, etc.) because we finally come around to realizing that, as Rob Bell’s book points out, biblically love wins. Always. And so we find ourselves here again. Doing the thing we do best: misinterpreting the Bible and ruining lives with it. We are, once again, ignoring the biblical bias for those who are marginalized, abused, belittled and negatively judged. Ignoring the biblical directive to show all the children of God love (and grace… and forgiveness).

Sandlin goes on to clearly delineate and take down every verse that supposedly points to homosexuality as “sin.” According to the Bible, it’s okay to be Takei, and those who say it isn’t are twisting the Bible’s words.

And here’s Sandlin’s conclusion:

Clobbered 

In summary of my look at the Christian Church’s use of the clobber verses, if you want to call homosexuality a sin, go ahead. But you are going to have to admit that it is not biblically a sin. Which means you are also going to have to admit that you are calling it a sin simply because that’s what you want to do. Because of that, you are going to have to admit that you are a sinner for using God’s name for false pretenses (it’s a little thing we like to call using God’s name in vain). And then, Paul has something to tell you, “…you have no excuse, whoever you are, when you judge others; for in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, are doing the very same things.” (Romans 2:1).

So, basically, love wins.

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It’s hard to be a diamond in a rhinestone world!

Gosh, I love that quote from Dolly. But not as much as I love this song, from the Oscar-winning film Transamerica a few (ok, 8) years ago. Love this lyric in particular:

“God made me for a reason, and nothing is in vain.”

Gay, straight, bi, trans, tall short, whatever. Believe it! You’re beautiful and your life has a purpose. Namaste!

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Happy thoughts!

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“All I can say is I’m Gay enough for me.”

One of the many, many reasons I love Ellen is this quote right here:

“At that time there were extreme groups that didn’t think I was gay enough. There were other groups of people who thought I was too gay. It didn’t occur to me that when I announced I was gay I would have to clarify just how gay I am. What does it matter? What does it mean? All I can say is I’m gay enough for me.”

— Ellen Degeneres, in her great book, Seriously…I’m Kidding

English: Ellen DeGeneres in 2009.

English: Ellen DeGeneres in 2009. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

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WAPO: Every Gay Kid Could Use Some Magic

NBA Hall of Famer, Earvin "Magic" Jo...

NBA Hall of Famer, Earvin “Magic” Johnson taken on 2007. Photo by Rafael Amado. © (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

WAPO reports on Magic Johnson’s support for his gay son:

We spent so much time last week waiting for the next U.S. senator to come out for same-sex marriage that we totally missed two important cultural moments in the quest for acceptance for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans. First, Ervin Johnson III, son of basketball great Magic Johnson, who is known as E.J., came out of the closet publicly in flamboyant fashion via TMZ. Then his father publicly supported him with words that every gay kid hopes to hear from his or her parents.

This is cool. Would that all parents everywhere were so supportive.

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54 Senators Now Supporting Marriage Equality!!!

54 Senators Now Supporting Marriage Equality!!!

HRC Reports:

Today senior U.S. Senator Tim Johnson (D-SD) became the 54th Senator to publicly support marriage equality.

Here’s what Sen. Johnson said:

“After lengthy consideration, my views have evolved sufficiently to support marriage equality legislation,” Johnson said in a statement. “This position doesn’t require any religious denomination to alter any of its tenets; it simply forbids government from discrimination regarding who can marry whom.”

And here’s what I said:

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Spring, renewal, sunshine, love

Spring has sprung here in the mountains of Tennessee. My garden is coming back to life and blooming. More good things are coming, springing up from the earth! I’m getting excited about, as the ever-so-fabulous Catie Curtis song goes: “Everything waiting to grow.”

Spring is coming to my heart as well, in this season of renewal and growth and rebirth. Just like the daffodils and the flowering trees and the green plants growing, we’re beautiful, just the way God made us–gay, straight, bi, trans, tall, short, whatever. And good things are coming this season, just waiting to grow. Believe it!

Namaste!

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